It's only sexist when men do it. A woman chops her husband's dick off and throws it in the garbage disposal and people turn around trying to figure out what the dude did to get such a punishment. "Oh, he must have cheated on her or beat her. He probably deserved it." Are you kidding me? They made jokes about it on female daytime talk shows on many US and Canadian networks. Imagine now that a woman got her tits chopped off or had her genitals mutilated in a similar fashion. Would the general reaction be the same? Would they say that she probably deserved it because of something she did or would it be received with horror and disbelief? That something so atrocious can happen in today's society? Double motherfucking standard. I'm not saying all women were saying that or felt that way. I'm also not saying that women always play the victim. What I am saying is that there is an obvious double standard in this 'equality" thing you all have been fighting for in this past 2500 years. There is a way to stop perpetuating it and that's to stop crying about all the little things and look at reason.
Men in a family situation more often that not are the ones that take out the trash, cut the grass, shovel the snow, move the furniture, fix the car, yadda yadda yadda. Women for the most part will not willingly do these activities because 1. They are not conditioned to do them, 2. It's physically more difficult than it is for most men. That being said, I don't think women are incapable of such things I just think that this is the way things are done and have been done for a while. Men take on some of the duties of a household and women should supplement the chores by taking on some of the remaining duties such as cooking, cleaning, etc. If the woman is the one doing all the strenuous physical labour then there should be no reason for the man not to cook and clean as to supplement the chores. I HATE females that say "Oh, I am not cooking for any man because I'm nobody's slave/bitch." Let's assess this for a second. I love cooking so maybe I'm the wrong guy to be saying this but cooking is fun and easy. That role should probably be shared. It should not be like this shameful activity that oppresses women to do. In this day and age where men and women's work habits and salaries are more equal than ever I EXPECT those chores to be shared but when a woman feels like it's this horrible thing when a man asks her to do that is completely misguided and frankly it's a bit of a turn off.
Let's be real for a second and get some of the issues on the table. I'm sorry ladies but men ARE physically stronger, obviously there's always the exception but I don't work on exceptions, I work on majority and that's the fucking truth. We have an inherent role as the protector, the guardian and the provider. This is not society it is genetics. We're born with a larger upper torso, more muscle mass and an ability to overcome fear is hardwired into our brains to compensate for certain things lacking in our female counterparts. Females, however, are hardwired a different way. They are more nurturing, compassionate, thoughtful, resourceful because they must give birth and raise a child. Society is one dumb motherfucker for teaching you guys that life is everything but for the repopulation of this planet. Let's take 5 steps back and strip away all the bullshit and get to the root of this. I am a man, you are a woman and when we put our parts together we make babies. I teach my son how to make money, protect himself and be healthy while my wife teaches my daughter how to sustain herself, how to protect herself and how to be a good mother. We must use the strengths that we're born with to find a suitable mate, create offspring and ensure the survival of our lineage. So all the people bitching about defined roles of genders and garbage like that are falling into this retarded trap which is extremely counterproductive. Cooking and cleaning does NOT make you a slave to men. Infact it helps the familial situation and reduces the burden on your spouse so why wouldn't you want to do that. I'd do it in a heartbeat if that's the way it had to be to ensure that my kids survived and thrived.
As far as I know we are equals. Our roles are only different because we are physically different but if women want equality then they should treat the situation with the same respect men are asked to treat it with. NO DOUBLE STANDARDS. I love women, you guys are awesome with your vaginas and such but if I hear your bitching about some dumb shit I'm gonna let it be known. With that, I am done with this topic but please check out the rest of this blog and check out the link below.
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